BAF never been the side to give equal chance at winning for the other side - I have not once expected that when I fight them, so I simply avoid them in game unless I want to lose while seeing their posturing, docking etc. They simply don't fight unless they know they can win, and Darius has been very vocal about not willing to give blues out in the past to get the other side to log more.
I don't think it's that big a deal though - you always have a choice to go in and fight them or not, for balanced sides you can just make events, that's what they are for. Or just fight someone else who doesn't mind losing so much - you came to them after all