Those are your opinions. You define using the chat list as meta gaming. We don't. Neither do the admins. Neither does 99.9% of the server as 99.9% of the server uses said chat list. In a game where there are more systems than there are players online, using the chat list is sometimes the only way to ensure interaction with another player. Even then it doesn't, as the chat list doesn't give you their exact location. Thus we still have to search for you.
As for disregarding a base shooting at us? Again, that is your opinion and an opinion based on ignorance. We don't disregard them. They are shooting at us, meaning we do have to keep them in mind and ensure we dodge their weapons fire. Point is, unless the base is a serious threat to us, we aren't going to run away. It is called role play.
It isn't hard to understand, but I'll say it again. That is your opinion, ours differs. Your opinion isn't fact. When confronted with the fact that we don't share your opinion all you did was repeat your opinion. Grow up. Move on.
As for Vlko? Ignore him or learn to not let little things like miss spelling your forum name bother you. You know how many times I've been called a troll, arse, prick, or any other various names on these forums or in game? Tons. Guess what? I don't care, because the people saying them are either trying to get a rise out of me or mad that something didn't go their way. That plus I know I am an arse.