Not going to quote jammi as I agree to each bit of it.
I will just add, that you should not mix your feelings, as a person, and character's opinions, as what role you play, in any way.
I saw your anger and distaste in regular discussions and I see it breaking out in roleplay communications.
I might be wrong on this, but if I'm right, take attention into it.
Best of luck.
EDIT: Oh. After Daedric's post - I don't think someone should step down as leader. All of us slip time from time. But error and trial makes us better and that is what matters.