When people play a game, there is no reason why they have to play by everyone elses rules just because certain people want to play a certain way and they want to force everyone else play to their style.
That is why its a shooter/war game.
I once played another role playing game for 5 years, I had written hundreds of stories and thousands of pages of role play.
Some of us wanted to have wars and others wanted to sit in the town bar and just chat and raise their crops and not ever be attacked. It was nothing but a bunch of people trying to enforce their game play and style upon others.