So why exactly does the K'Hara have such a super-high standard ? I mean, you want to be more active. Ever thought about lowering these standards a notch ? I mean sure, no one's a pro-roleplayer. Not even the K'Hara's. The thing is, when you notice that your faction doesn't have a lot of people, you should think about why it is that way.
What do you have to lose ? Your equipment isn't OP per se, so why would any Pvp-whore bother with the Nomads? Maybe you should focus less on the whole "collective mind" thing, and have a bit of fun ? Raid, destroy, burn things like you're supposed to. Of course, you shouldn't pick an extreme of either side, just spice things up a little.