Guys, reading all this makes me sad... It just appears (from your words) that the server is full of blue-message hunters and silent runners...
No really, you are talking about this like about a tragedy, while this conversation leads to nowhere, because the people, you mention here are not going to read this all.
Why? Why do you do it? Why don`t you play? Simply play. It is a game, it is a RP game, why do you keep complaining of the stuff that is not a RP? Why would you bother?