Simply what I expect from the RP community members is the attitude of rp promotion and putting it above the "easy word-less fun" or so. This what I expect to see when it comes to rp.
If your ingame group does not seek for fun being achieved via RP and you promote your own way as you pointed above (gathering after work, relaxing and all - not a crime, yuh, agreed), you are free to do so. But honestly, why don't you (as for example) start own server with couple of bases and just play team vs team? You've got plenty men for that.
Why saying that? From what I might know you tend to disturb irp environment with your actions, and your words tend to upset me ruining my illusion of the Discovery being a roleplay oriented game... Less or more.... I hope...
Or as an option - build your own bases, and destroy them, playing team vs team ( you are ingame group after all, won't be much troubles crossing RP logics ).