now that i know the situation. i still feel that a lesson could still be learned from this. which in reality was the main point of this thread.
the point was not intended to bring up the issues they had with each other but to let the situation that happened be a lesson to all. to teach that personal issues should be left out of the game and the forums. i see it all the time and just wanted to use this oppotunity to use it as an example for all to learn from...even myself.