I've actually been in the fights and talked with others who were in the events I missed. So, I'm not just pulling these notions out of thin air.
I also don't find the fact that you whine about getting ganked now is irrelevant to the fact that you weren't complaining as long as it was you on the winning/ganking side previously. It's not so much that I am self-righteous, as it is I find your blatant hypocrisy annoying.