Well from my perspective, I duelled one guy who oorp'ly asked to be excused when we were nearly finished. I fly on, and I find him alongside a bunch of LN snubs and caps, fighting a few pirates (including pirate caps). I get into the fight, the snubs all seek cover around their caps and we try to pull them out. At that point we've only got 2 fighters our side, and I am not grouped with the rest of them.
Then you guys arrive on top of everything else, and the pirates start dropping like flies. I turn around and leave wholly convinced that it is only a matter of time before you've deleted everything else and it's my turn.
Sure, I didn't stay to find out this time. But I have played with you and against you on a number of occasions, on both tagged and untagged ships; I know some of the players a bit, so I am not really basing my assessment on thin air.
Either way, it's up to you. I know Spirit.Of.Fire requires certain attention, I tried to put a stop to his runs many times; but I still find the excessive ganks a bit over the top. I'll just leave when I see you do this thing again like I did before.