Do it on the forums. You're a "corporation," (wink, wink) so you should be able to do it. It would take someone being really butthurt and mad that he died in a pew to report you for it, since RP backs it up.
Granted, recent experiences have led me to believe that the vast majority of the thin-skinned, weak willed members of the community would jump on the opportunity to have the admins slap someone that bested them in a pew.