A problem we need to address. - the indy

[Laura C.]

I agree.

Well i saw alot of interactions with indie players. more than 90% of people talking nicely with us, but other 10%. When they need help they not asking... THey order us to help. And when they don't need it, then giving you order to get away from him. Also i saw 1 RM cruiser who scanned me and then told me: "Get lost, you're clear". That was strange.

Official military factions RP a chain of command, as they are supposed to look like a military. Thus the orders. But yes, the orders should rather be formulated as "Can you do that please?" than "You must do this and that". The prior are more likely to be obeyed too.
About ordering players not to interfere, though. There is a thing called ganking. It means that a lot of players attack a few players, or players with inferior ships, thus giving them no chance of victory, no fun and no reason to come back to pew next time -- and thus neither can have fun next time. If you are ordered not to interfere in a fight, it's for a greater good. You should stay there in reserve, watch, and be ready to jump in if you are asked to. Or, well, you can just jump in at the start, contrary to the orders, but then your comrades might abandon you and leave you alone to the enemy.
About that RM cruiser: some people tend to be jerks on the internet. That's mostly because you can't punch them through a wire. The species inhabits Disco too, unfortunately, and it is hard to prevent the blighters from feeding off from someone's annoyance.

The RM cruiser thing is actually typical example how easy misunderstanding can happen. I don´t know what you were flying, but if it was for example junker, I can imagine that RM player simply RP his character the way he doesn´t like junkers, but have to tolerate them when they are not breaking laws. So answer "Get lost, you're clear" is a way how to express it. Of course the other option is that the statement was motivated ooRPly by lack of manners on player-player level.

But it´s very easy to confuse these two option and then bad feelings are created, when player feels offended despite the insult was meant inRPly.

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On a ragebreak. Or ragequit. Time will tell.