To answer you would mean to try to explain you the thin line between using the player list for beneficial interaction and what you did. A thing you should know by now but so conveniently try to not credit right now. Do not try to polarize this. You know all to good what you did is metagaming, while what I've done is called , how Loki said, using the player list for interactions.
We've seen you, we could have avoided you, thus metagaming. We did not do that.
You, instead, waited at the only place in the whole system that would have given you sure interaction. You gave no chance of avoiding the interaction. Thus metagaming, powergaming , you name it. But in that fantasy world you live in, this must not be metagaming, if you say so.
We've not done what you did. And if the cover of RP become just that, a cover for a fast blue message, then you've lost track of what an RP server is.
And considering this unassertive answer you've given, expect no interaction with our group from now on. Or, maybe expect a gank, a heavy gank, based on the same percepts you yourself used. People read this and judge.
{Edit 1] To simplify my response for you, what I've done did not result in avoidance of interaction. I've got information of you being there and that is all. That is why the playerlist is there.
What you've did assured you an interaction, with no way to counter this. Moreover, you're RP was a cheap charade to cover the already set decision - blues....blues blues blues.