Just to satisfy the basic needs of my arguementative nature this morning...
In your first arguement in the current debate, Axis, I can't see any unquestionable evidence that Protege did indeed use the playerlist to look for interaction and did not just choose a certain bottleneck of which he has a lot of past experience of meeting piracy targets there.
Okay, seemingly he admitted to it, but so were you to using the playerlist, both of you knew of the other, so it's basically both of your... "fault" (?) that the interaction happened.
The AFK piracy arguement is a tiny bit shaky, I just can't imagine somebody being AFK and successfully pirating at the same time. You know, those three letters literally mean Away From Keyboard.
O'Rhu are Order, Brose are Outcasts. What did you expect? It's far not the worst what you've got, as Loki said, you'd got worse from his Cross character (and god forbid you unleashing your wrath upon their feedback thread when it happens). Hope for the best but expect the worst and you'll have far more positive surprises and joy in your life as well as in your play than negative ones and sour taste left in your mouth.
Lastly, massive amounts of sodium-chloride filling your posts is bad in itself, theatrical moves like "I'm Santa, and you've been a bad boy so here is your dedicated lump of coal" just make it worse, like attention whoring wouldn't be high enough without it. Also, arbitrary definitions of good and bad are toxic as it's just a matter of opinion depicted as fact. Tone it down, try to stay a bit more objective, or at least try to look more like that (maybe eat a sandwich between the encounter and the feedback), and the difference between your posting styles will clearly be visible. Believe me, you'll retain more of your credence if you keep NaCl, theatrical elements and arbitrary "this is good, that is bad" things out of your posts.