I don't disagree w/ ya Lennox, I'm guilty of being angry & I freely admit to it....at the same time, I'm simply bringing up something that needs discussion & as abrasive as I am, It's not without reason. My tone will change when the actual discussion begins. & so far, it ain't started yet.
Up to now, the thread has been more about me than the issue itself.
I'm no different by nature now than I've always been for the past 9 years, it's just that many posters so far wanna take issue with it as clickbait & ignore the crux of why I posted today to begin with.
It ain't a rant at all though...
What I ask for still stands
though, I ain't blind, I understand the perspective