As there is no choice but to roleplay in this community. Well. there's nothing I think we can do about that sir.
Second. "good" roleplay as a pretext to defending itself or i guess in this case being blown away or from what i can guess planet diving is up to the individuals involved. I don't see a context or a difference between yours and thiers in this instance. So i suppose the quality of pretext to an engagement is a little moot to argue about.
Wouldn't you agree?
I suggest you two personally work this out. sometimes i think this community is too small.