Im having a bad time, or literally nothing in the game is fair.

[Durandal]

This is what friends are for, and threads like this generally aren't conducive to making friends. Yeah, it seems lame and undynamic and might go against the intent of an RP server, but if you want to be safe you don't have much choice other than to make some friends and mine with other people, Joining a faction would be a good way to start.

In addition, there are also many things to mine outside of gold which are just as profitable. A lot of people, myself included, play GMG and mine H3 up in Sigma 19 for example.

So yeah, just be chill, get to know some people, and things will turn around before you know it.