Let's not forget that while "having fun" is okay and nice and cool, but having fun at the expense of others is not. Let's not ignore all those who came to this server seeing "RP" in it's name and were expecting RP when they came here either. Find some consensus, shall we?
How about expect fair fights in neutral space and cry rivers once you got ganked there only, for the sake of enjoyable PvP, and attempt to strike at anyone's home systems or home bases without any expectations of such kind, for the sake of enjoyable RP? To me it sounds like a fair trade, nothing like "I gank you wherever I want because that makes sense inRP" or "I expect a fair fight even inside of your home, because I'm here to have fun, not to lose", rather something in between the two. What do you think?
EDIT: This thread seems to be a good one to have a serious discussion in, and possibly find a solution to an issue which has been dividing the community for a while. May I ask the Moderator Team to watch over and remove any stupidity, trolling or derail attempt which may appear in the future?