Honest Request

[Operator]

there is only one good teacher out there boy, and it's name is "Real Life". nothing and nobody can tell you what exactly you need, except for it.

trying to be a better person for somebody else is not a thing that you need, right? be yourself, learn your lessons, change yourself according to your life, not the people that surround you.

don't worry, it all comes with an age. you will receive your own lesson when your life considers it. speaking of Nyx's words, i think that she meant that you have to change for yourself, not for somebody else. so why even ask? you will know when exactly it happens.

popping out and asking about your own changes, at least in this community, isn't a good idea. just don't ask anybody. the life will teach you the way you need it.