And that's part of the problem that Shaggy, Foxglove and I have been talking about, When I said "A person who likes Pen and Paper RPG's" that kind of what I was getting at.
In Palladium Fantasy (The one I've played the most) Names are power, no one uses their "True Name" because that gives people like Summoners and Necromancers the ability to have dominance over you, your name is in your character sheet.
there's also a race of beings called simply "Changelings" they are persecuted because of the fact that during wars they were summoned to act as infiltrators and assassins, as a result if one is found out they are hunted down and killed nine out of ten times. The reason I bring this is up is, If you play as a Changeling you have two VERY important things in your sheet that if someone looks, they now have so much leverage over you, or (Like here) Scream "Changeling!" and you find yourself having to write up a new character. So you keep your sheet close to you, making sure people don't know everything about you, allowing you to slip by to accomplish your own agenda, as good or evil as it may be. Here, if you decide to try and play Wilde you don't have that security, leading to the inevitable scan then "WE GOT A WILDE HERE!" that's why we were bringing up these alternate means of ID.
I know I know, that's a lot of text, but I there really wasn't another way to get what I wanted to say across.