Just to answer the part where you address me, which I assume is the entire post as you refer for the both of us.
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jk. You could have called in the entire squad just sitting 5km away from you and we both know they'd have helped you. Now, if they're afraid they might end up losing the fight because through the magic power of metagaming they know who we are and they think they don't measure up, we can't help with that. It's them acting out of roleplay, not us.
You are in an online game. If you wish to roleplay with your friends and/or people who only act as by your standards, you're expecting something that won't happen. We don't abide by your needs.
That does not mean that we look to ruin your day, your gameplay experience and yada yada. If we did you wouldn't have gotten to roleplay for hours, obviously. We look for interaction and we look to have fun, just like you. If the game mechanics make it so that our fun destroys yours, I am sorry, but I am not going to stop playing. Personally, when I log ingame I look to fight most of the time. And I don't care if it's 1v1, 1v2, 1v9 or 1v4 solaris gunboats. I don't care if it's you, your friend, Garrett Jax or Cannon in his low profile 400 ping zoner 5ker.
I enjoy the game. I enjoy roleplaying, I enjoy pvping, I enjoy mixing them. And if you want to have fun, you should learn to do the same.