Im not going to let everyone know where I am going or what I am doing . Why should everyone know?
Making a rule about this is stupid and rather should be felt in a case by case. We all dont want to be involved in the IRG problem that you have and have it affect us too.
You have a 2iC for a reason and nothing is stopping you from playing the game. Lets not try to make a dumb rule that only will lead to power grabbing.