Welcome to Discovery and sad to hear you met the kind of "welcome" that makes many players turn away fast again.
If you want to have a future in this game and enjoy is, change one thing:
Accept that interaction can be negative, and that most will be. Try to accept that.
The important part is: try not to avoid interaction.
And this is why:
About 20 % of interactions are good, 5 % are really good and they (hopefully) outweigh all the idiocy/unfairness/bullying/... you will definitely encounter.
But if you say you avoid every contact, you'll not be here for long.
It's the wrong mentality.
