I was refering to the overall lack of communication between both officials and indie playerbases. Sorry but I remember cases where each of both sides didn't care but the indies gladly helped organizing things. As in, organizing prior, just to avoid discouraging situations like 2:1 outnumbering etc. etc.
Edit: And duh, Lyth, I know what getting ganked means. Not everyone wants to cope with this though. I planned to go 7v1 in that event but I didn't in the end, admitted.
Some people are tired of only getting ganked you know? But that's actually so obvious that you should not be surprised. Core and Order was ganking each other for years, a lot are tired of it. I see such discouragement in other places as well for various reasons, one always being ganks. It's just as it is, not everyone is cool with it.