Positive reinforcement works best, also, if your sad for your skill level being too high for others to enjoy pvp with you there's a really easy solution : nerf yourself, fly stuff you aren't used to,stop ace stacking(baby seal clubbing) , explore weird setups and ships, that way you challenge yourself making things enjoyable, you get more bragging rights (important to some) and you intice people who are less skilled to interact with you again. To be fair I must add that strangely I see a lot of people not logging because they are afraid of dying in this game, even though there's nothing to lose. From my perspective, it seems like these issues are some of the biggest activity killers