I am also a bit concerned

[Lanakov]

And for god's sake. don't let anyone tell you what you have to do in Discovery. Do only things that are giving you fun. If possible, without rule violations. If you manage to do that without even giving someone else a bad time, then you're probably Lanakov.

This is possibly one of the nicest, sweetest things anyone has ever told me. I now feel strongly compelled to demand that we be married, whether you be man, woman, cat or a mix of the aforementioned.
The rest of your post underlines it, too.

What is it going to take for you lot to be love one another at long last ?! How hard could it possibly be, when all we're doing here is writing stories and internet spaceships ? I have a job that puts me directly at the heart of the very many, horrible things man would do to another for reasons of varying logic. I can understand some of those. I can not understand why some here can't fathom why everything would be better if they stopped acting like twats. I mean, yes, the provoking, rebellious act is cool and fun, we've all been there when we were twelve. I like to think most of us have grown up. It's quite simple, really ; make your own fun and make it not at the obvious, explicit detriment of others. It's... Mind numbingly dumb, and yet I feel it needs to be reasserted lately.

Disco is a place of magic. Magic can be dark, twisted and impossible to understand. But like the great cinematic work of the 20th century has taught us, it is primarily a matter of friendship.
Cultivate that. This place is what we make it.

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If everyone was a bit more like Lanakov, the entire world would be more positive. Including pregnancy tests.