No captain poo you are taxing as you do in RP and for a specific reason so i think you are not being unreasonable at all. I am pretty sure my trader has fallen prey to you and dropped the cargo, turned back loaded and went the long way around and still turned a profit. It is the ones who don't want to spend the time (and i would bet they do not RP much either) to take the longer way and just want profit as fast as they can get it that are screaming sanction. So far most pirates i have encountered have been reasonable some a little fast to blast but hey you deal and move on. After all it's a game and we are supposed to have fun not take stuff personally. After re reading the OP i think both should have been sanctioned (if as it looks like Grimly is saying he was in a destroyer while pirating) and the other guy for re engaging or using another character for revenge.