Sun pauses then smiles at the morbid question, in her kindness she speaks again "You must be self-aware, as a precondition for understanding and healing your anger. If you become aware of the workings of your own mind you can find the means by which you become angry and then understand how to heal it. If you ideas which are not in harmony with the realities of your life then you can learn to relax into existence of it all. So, a tendency to see someone as completely negative or be angered at them is due to your own perception based on your own mental projection, rather then perceiving the true nature of that individual." Sun pauses looking about the garden as she continues "It is useful to suppress anger, suppose an enemy has hurt you with words, why should you annoy yourself and hurt your own mind by getting angry? Why allow anger to arise and thus do exactly as he wants you to do?" Sun does a brief smile "You must learn to calm, to cut it short."
