The situatuon at hand isn't always black and white. It's not a matter of "could you be there" but rather "should you be there". As I've said more than a few times, we didn't like the fact you were at KKJ so we bailed. I don't know how else can we explain it. As for Planet Diving, much like you used all your resources when you strolled to KKJ to blast us, Meg used all the resources she had to avoid you. It just happened to be a planet at the time. Do I justify it? It doesn't matter if I do, I'm at the bottom of the food chain in this faction.
To sum it up, one thing leads to another, things snowball and we end up here.