If everyone is telling you the same thing, then maybe there is a really good f*cking reason why. Surely it's not us who are insane and you're the only person with a clear mind. Right? Or maybe I just have to drop the sarcasm here and make it clear that it's really that simple to end this mess.
Get off your high horse. Open up a channel. Talk to her. Or I can bring her to you. You choose.
And trust me, I'm really good and finding people when I want to.
"Test the sharpness of your sword against another. And when that is not enough, unsheathe your cunning as the hidden dagger that ends the fight."