I see a chance to finish this, so I'll break my words and give it a shot. You were not a fool, don't be mean with yourself now, save it for others. It was a constructive feedback with unconstructive words.
Thanks to the other feedbacks I did understood that the distance was an issue. Before the battle I admit we didn't paid attention to it because we had no bad intentions. In the future we'll do our best to provide extra room for comfort.