To be clear I'm not even particularly upset, I was more just confused as to why someone would bother, and frankly having an hour of my time wasted is not exactly pleasant.
As a whole though given how hideously time consuming and player intensive it is to do these I'd prefer to just avoid it if possible and discourage other people from doing so.
As for the ill intent he was making heading directly towards the encounter and I was heavily wagering it was pretty obvious why we were there given where it's positioned in the system. If he didn't know, sure, that's fine.
I do appreciate the word of fair play, I have a general distaste for ganking and I appreciate this sentiment from your faction.