I have long ago passed the time when life stops giving you things and starts taking them away.
Mine is now the oldest generation in our family. Being a grandfather myself, and being so much closer
to the end of my story than the beginning, let me tell you the most likely perspective of your deceased
patriarch.
We are all the result of thousands of Loves, back to time immemorial. The most important thing to a
good man is that he raised a good family. He takes his family's name from his forbears and leaves it to
his children unstained. He loved you and is proud of you, even if you stumbled and it was never said openly.
As one who has stood at the threshold of Death, I can assure you that the Souls that have known endure.
Just beyond our reach for only a time, but not lost. All shall be reunited one day.
Speak to your grandfather when you have the need. He will be happy to have the company while he waits.