Suzy, have NO DarkWings initiate combat at all.
In fact have us sit somewhere far away from the tradelanes. Then we can focus strictly on the RP and when we have a need to fight, we just sit there and fight each other. This will end the accusations of us being pvpwhores. It will end the accusations of us never Roleplaying. It will also end any chance for anyone else to ever battle against us. This is a RP server not a PVP server. So battles should only happen every few days not every day. It will end the chest beating and other infantile taunts sent our way as well as end the pathetic insults as well. Screenshot any insults and report them. End of story and end of problem.