We are all open for new ideas. I hate when people say that they are being hated because someone disagrees with them and tells that things they proposed are wrong. No one hates you. It's just a matter of explaining; if you are new to this game and/or modding it, you surely know less than we do. And there's nothing bad, cause everyone's learning.
What's actually wrong is when you start to insist that what you say should be done, not listening to what others say. Afterwards, you say you are being hated and flamed by everyone when you are NOT. Continue to go this way, and you will really be flamed. For a reason.