Things don't fix themselves overnight, Tenacity. You need to cool down and let things play out. There are two [basic] different ways the Order can be construed. They can war Liberty, or they cannot. I understand you aren't ruling either out (I meant "had a cease-fire" actually), but you are still telling people to stay out of a system that differing opinion says can be operated in.
Bs was sanctioned for killing someone because he did not follow their RP. I'm not bringing this back up, you are. They were not sanctioned for being ooRP, they were sanctioned for forcing their RP. Most ooRP scenarios are obvious, you do not need a clear cut readout to show this. If there is a clear cut readout, awesome. But Freelancer and Discovery is a massive thing, it takes time to deal with these things, and as said, differing opinions make that even more difficult.
You are raving about how we need to be spoon fed the canon, and while I think it's a bit over the top, it's not a bad idea. That said, it isn't going to happen anytime soon. Until then, with the Order (lets keep it on topic, please), Bs can do it their way, others can do it theirs, as long as it's within server rule. I know it isn't the optimum scenario, but that's all we can have right now.