People believe that this concerns them because it will set a precedent. For instance, if the Order's main faction is allowed to do X thing, well, the same will apply to the Bretonian Armed Forces or Rheinland Military, who will be able to do X thing, X being whatever.
Continuously saying that everyone is whining isn't going to help anything, it only makes you look hotheaded and perhaps even lacking in capability. Saying that people are flaming whilst simultaneously saying that their concerns are 'bullcrap' (nice way to avoid the swear filter, I'll note that one down for future use) and that they are 'whining' makes one look rather rude and hypocritical.
Basically, what I'm saying is that your abrasive manner will have people disagreeing with you because it is you soon, unless you chill out, even if next time, you are correct.
Relax, have a beer, enjoy Christmas, then we can all do this in a happy-fun-time way, right? It's better than being a much less frightening version of the Incredible Hulk at any rate.