Loosing connection

[Tommeh]

Hello everybody
So this is my problem like the title says:I am having a huge problem with loosing connection.
When I try to connect first I get this meessage:
and after few seconds i get this one:
Sometimes when I managed to connect after playing few minutes a red icon on the top of the screen on left side of the bar starts flashing and and I get kicked out of server.When I try to connect again I get the same messages as before.This is always repeating and I can not play.

I have tried eveything that I read on this forum that might be the problem:
1.Shutdown all firewalls(windows firewall and router firewall,I don't have any other)
2.Uninstalled completely antivirus
3.Made a fresh install of Freelancer and FLMM,and updated beta 4 update 1.
4.checked in router options anything that could cause this problem...found nothing.
I am running it on Windows XP SP3.
I am connecting to Discovery USA ok.Without a problem.
I don't know what else should I do.
Maybe it's not the problem on my side.

Oh,yes and my chars are:
Order|Jack_Osborne
Darien.Fawkes
Defiant[J.O.]
Tommy2103

with all chars it happens the same.

Every help and advice is more then welcome!

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