Troubles with connectivity

[Aliceil]

I'm literally on the other side of the world from the server (New Zealand to be precise). My ping normal ping is around 350-400ms. This is a little laggy but for the most part playable even when fighting.

You need to have port 2302 open on your firewall or/and router. This port is used for both incoming and outgoing traffic.

I found out my port forwarding was off by 1 number so i port forwarded my router and firewall correctly and it shaved about 100 ping of both the USA and Disco RP servers... so its down to 309 for disco and 211 for the USA (which is better).. it still does not solve the fact i gotta bash the hell out of connect for it to eventually connect.