I'm sorry, what RP? What you are doing is not RP, it is bloodlusting pvpwhorage. Base on the individual, not the stereotype, because there are lolwuts on both sides. You, my friend, are proving yourself to be one of them.
You go on about how we're self righteous, how you're always thinking of others and aim to impede as little as possible, yet you yourself have repeatedly said in this very thread that you give traders literally no leeway, nor chance for RP, and would sooner blow them up than let them work their way with words. Like most of the indie-pirates I've seen recently, really.
Lead by example, use common sense, remember that the other person is a player and don't base your attitude of an individual on previous experiences with players of the same faction or group. Those are the basic guidelines for a community.