Well, it is not that I am talking about acting like this every time. I know that you are not very active with your Phantoms and letting go your prey would kill your fun. (Yes, blowing things up is fun.:P)
But I think Violette was right in that other thread: if I was a terrorist like you, I would rather unleash chaos between houses, by rising the tensions between them somehow then attacking small patrols of their militaries or blowing up miners.
With the miner I refer to this video, darthbeck provided. YES, his RP was poor, but Zelots reaction wasn't the best on such a player. Try to help them to improve it on your terrifying way, then just blowing them up. I know it is hard and I catch myself sometimes doing the same with unwilling traders in Hamburg. But feeding each others lines sometimes is better then just... well, being annoyed and blowing them up.
This is something which is expected at least from the RM pilots and I think it is just fair to expect it from others, too. Expecially from the Phantoms with a rather complicated RP stereotype behind.