Nope, I closed them all down (he wasnt even home and they were open lol) and soon after I got kicked with 40% packet loss.
Its probably a whole ISP local internet thing. All three of us (me, my mom and dad) all have our own computer each connected to the same router. We can all be on at the same time and i wont lag.
Now im playing again at a lofty 21% packet loss.
EDIT: Well, now its solidified. Its definately not server side. Theres 50 flippin people online and i still have 19,32,20% LOSS! AH! I really hope its fixed tomorrow, im so close to my goal.
EDIT: Yep it was my side. Now i have a low 155 ping (100 people on server) and Zero to one percent loss. Thanks for the help cannon, I know i can be a douche sometimes.