People need to take breaks...from everything..it's not failure or surrender....it's just like sleeping. The brain needs time to process things on a subtle level and the only way to do that is to break from the activity for a bit.
Take a week off from Disco and the forums.
Focus on the GF, make her dinner every night, pack her lunch for work, make her breakfast, clean the house. When your in a relationship where she is living with your and can see what you do with your time.......you got a work a lot extra if you want to spend hours in front of the computer.
