The rule around here is that whatever the players choose to do doesn't trump what comes with the server. Namely a Molly can't shoot you down for pirating BMM.
If some overblown whatsit in the Order tells you he'll shoot you out of the sky for heading off into Liberty in your Anubis to raise some hell he's wrong.
I can't really say anything about the other stuff you mentioned as it didn't come with any examples.
