No, they don't kill children....they save children...well, girls anyway, but I don't think they will kill any child...
and..no. again.
its a political philosophy, and you cant change ones sexual orientation....its a physiological thing.
also, I kinda don't think she would ship him off at birth...before puberty, but he should probably have memory of his mother, and visit on occasion....
also...I think this GC tangent may warrant a split...