If someone orders inRP deal with it inRP.
If same ID'ed person shoots you inRP, deal with it inRP.
Of course you can whine on forums, use ooRP rules to sanction player that did RP with you.
Play freelancer more, not sanctionlancer.
Play within legitimate RP and you'll not have people like me getting irritated. You wanna play some RP that's in direct conflict with what the ID states you can and cannot do then request a Special RP exception.
What it boils down to is there's a certain group that think they can fly whatever they like, mismatch their ID's, IFF's and file a story in the forums and pretty much do whatever they wanna do. There's no RP in that.