For all the Noobs and Veterans who STILL do not get it right!

[Marvin]

OK, here it comes, i know you where waiting for it, i am sure to be honest, even if you did not know that you -, or what you exactly where waiting for - here it is:

PAR

IF you may ask yourself "wtf is par?" then you are at the right place, and to be honest i am sure most of you are in deep need of being schooled about that, by me of course, who else if not me.

Well to make clear what PAR means: Passive Aggressive Role-play

You might think, well that is as new as.... as... as your idea of your In-game Name. But as i saw a lot of people still doing it wrong here my 5 cents to make this server a better place.

But first a short backstory to let me look even better, with me i am talking about my ego – so me.
I am sure i am one of the elder players around, and no, i do not talk about secondary important things like ingametime i talk about physical age. Which is valued way above ingametime you for sure know.

In my RL... yes, you got it, totally different thing then In-game behavior, one has absolutely nothing to do with the other, i had the time, some may say the need of, training a couple of years martial arts, and if it almost all the time was more martial, than arts, it sounds better like this.
My trainer made me clear, and he did so real quick, and so did my experience, if i do not treat my sparring-partner with respect and care he will stop do be willing to be my sparring-partner. And i would be left alone. And as i was training in a Gym not in a prison, everyone was free to come and go as he liked... yes i know kind of uncomfi, but that was it.

So i adapted this enlightenment, not only to my training, but to my everyday behavior, i treated everyone around me as nicely as i could and it went quite well. But there came a problem. My ego... i felt really quick that my ego got smaller and smaller almost every day... i got afraid, i mean who am i if i loose it at all? Will i still... be?

But i am, as you may figured by now, not stupid, so i found a roundabout.. Some hidden punch there, a little smile at the right moment when my partner tripped, a laughter at the right time when he hurts himself trying without success, of course, performing some new forms and so on. Now that was the solution.

So i learned almost without any difficulties to be a master in passive aggressive behavior. And that, ladys, gentlemen, my noobs, kids! was the solution!

I learned to be almost not kind but still friendly and an asshole in the same time. Great success!

And as i had a lot of good experiences with this i wanted to help you get a better life, ehm i mean ego too.

So think about it, i know it is not easy for you, but try it. And if you get something you might could call consciousness for that matter you will get better every day.

I am willing to share with you some examples, and i hope other masters of PAR will do so to. I really encourage you to do so in this thread so the noobs and others who still don't have no idea can catch up with us.

And if some crybaby comes and says it is hurt. Well then just say, here my first examples i cached up in-game:

"come on it is just a game"
"it is time to grow some balls, don't you think?"
"if you think this or that hurts your feelings, then you really should visit a doctor, just saying."

If you run out of ideas, just travel threw NY, you do not even have to stop there, just catch up what you hear passing threw, and you can post here and tell everyone it was your idea.

If you feel like needing an extra ego boost, then post with the names who said it. It is up to you, i felt i have a sane enough ego after schooling you ... for today... to i will not do so:




And if you say, “great, i am getting better in PAR i want to do that in RL too”, THIS GUY can give you some really helpful tips to get it right in your relationship.

Good luck and thank you in the name of the others, i do not need them, in advance for more examples!

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-> Don't forget to fly <-

[Chrysalis]

that's a lot of words

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[Marvin]

that's a lot of words

i love to write, and my brain just gives me food, and more food, and i have to find from now to then a point, but there is so much to think about and it never ends... i like that

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-> Don't forget to fly <-

[Karlotta]

Something that is often forgotten when asking for certain people, or the entire community, to behave in a reasonable way, is that the community is made up 80% of people like the two protagonists of the following videos.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yb-sCNfE0bM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bP3GYdrW450
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M602JaiJfB8

But good luck in trying to get them to change.

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[Marvin]

Sometimes that is often forgotten when asking for certain people, or the entire community, to behave in a reasonable way, is that the community is made up 80% of people like the two protagonists of the following videos.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yb-sCNfE0bM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bP3GYdrW450
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M602JaiJfB8

But good luck in trying to get them to change.

Thanks for the vids, i will take a look the other two, the first one was quite funny!

I deeply believe, that there is no way to change others, it is impossible.
The only thing that can change is one self who wants to change himself.
May "the example" can do something, a little something. But it always depends of the observing thinking person to makes a decision to change or not.

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[Corile]

how do you delete someone else's account

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[OllO]

with magic. use Gheis powers!

[Thunderer]

i am one of the elder players around

How old were you? 10,000,000 years? And has anyone replaced you that diode yet?

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[Yaoquizque]

In 825 AS the Nagumo and the Nagasaki faced onw on one a last times, when the IKN started their last assault on the capital itself. When the Nagumo fall down and exploded in Tokoy's atmosphere, the gun became silence.

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[Yaoquizque]

THE GUN BECAME SILENCE

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