Swering Vs. concequences

[chovynz]

Sigh. This is why I dislike forum ... everything. And yet why I'm here every day.
Easily misunderstood posts and such. But great relationship possibilities I guess.

XO. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to sound harsh. I'd like to explain what I was thinking.
I made my comment publicly so I'll apologise for the misunderstanding publicly and
try to gain understanding.

Props to you for apologising. Many people don't have the guts to do that.
You did that publicly, and even continued to be polite after my post. so you have
a great attitude. That will take you far in life.

Does anyone agree wih me when i sa that maybe i should be pardoned... or maybe fined [i have already been banned for a while ] now, and let me play ?

Please guys... I really need to know what everyone thinks of this case...

What I was referring to was the above. Admin's decision is final, however they
have provided a way of appealing any decision made. What I didn't suggest and
this was my mistake in not mentioning it, was to go there and appeal instead of
bringing that case into here. Granted it is a relevant case, but the above sentences
changes the whole leaning of your post to "Whiney."

Marburg had it right when he said "(meaning triyng to get forum members to
second guess admin judgement for an obvious party foul)" those last two
sentence turns your whole explanation / apology post into an appeal to the masses.
Hence why I said, "The only opinions you need to know about [your case]
are the admins' [opinions based on the evidence that they have been presented
in the case of your swearing. The general public's opinions will not change that you
have been sanctioned.] Appealing to the masses like this [afore mentioned
everyone elses' irrelevant opinions on your sanction] is ... distasteful."

There is nothing wrong for one to apologize to the community for one's actions..(perhaps in a separate thread, but no matter). If you wish to appeal, I believe there is a thread for that as well. But I feel it is not distasteful at all for one to apologize..

Totally agree. It takes guts to apologise, and you, XO, already have - many times.

Anyway. I'm sorry there was misunderstanding between us. I like to be frank
with people, many times it comes across as harsh. For those who can grasp it,
there is opportunity for personal growth when something like this comes along.
You've shown yourself a good sport by not attacking me personally.

*extends friendship hand.* No hard feelings? If there is I would like it to talk
to you more in PM or skype and see if we can work it out..

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