I think the ship list is a great idea, as it's a good way to see what you'll be able to fly should you make a character with a faction association you aren't totally familiar with.
As for the exceptions, they SHOULD be allowed on the basis of very good roleplay and admin approval. I'm sure you'll disagree Akumabito, as you've stated more than enough times in this thread, but exceptions will always happen.
Thanks for the work you've put into this Molnir, I can tell you've worked hard mate.