I'm only going to respond to the video in the first post.
As a member of the Phantoms I honestly find the title of your video a little insulting Darthbeck.
My Phantom is known to be an agressive and unpleasent man. Rawshank is not your friend. However, the implication you're giving there with your video, which quite clearly starts some distance through an interaction is potentialy rather a misleading one.
If you wish to present someone in a bad light then it's worth having the decency to actualy present it in some context, rather than just something which without the surrounding circumstances is bound to look bad.
I have had interactions on my phantom, and on my keeper which have gone rather like this...
*Several lines of roleplay designed to bring someone into an RP situation*
*No responce*
*several more lines of roleplay laying out my character's aims within the situation*
*No responce*
*I blow up the individual*
"-bleep- you n00b. I -bleeping- hate it when -bleep- gank, just get a -bleeping- -bleep- you -bleep-"
*guy I was orginally trying to RP with logs off*
Now. To my eyes this looks a little like the above situation, except without the swearing or it being entirely in game.
The last section seems t have happened in the form of a video I find offensive giving the amount of work I have put into the chracter in the year it has been on the server (first as a merc then a phantom), and the number of people I have actualy blown up on the character since it has become a phantom (I can count them on the fingers of two hands), and the number of people I have had in depth conversations with.
Please. Give more context if you wish to say something negative, and criticism is best received when presented without anger or a 'you suck' attitude.